8 celebrity couples who have shared their advice for making love last

The Gospel star and his wife have been married for 22 years, and met at a waterpark. You’ve got to die to yourself, and your wants, said Kirk to NAIJ.

“I love being married to her. And the fear of a lifeless boring life with no fun and youthful fire was a life that had to be created by the both of us. See, men don’t want to adjust, to bend, to die. That’s the word; die. Not in some dreadful dark cloud type of way, but to take the focus off of yourself and realize that you’re not the best YOU that you can be until you find that soul mate that ignites that better you.”

Don’t just be a wife, be a girlfriend, Franklin told Madame Noire.

“I think that as a culture we kind of shy away from counseling and therapy, but it’s important,” she said. “It says that you love each other enough, love yourself enough to get the help that you need. And so we’ve done counseling; it has saved our marriage. We pray together and I’m not only his wife, but I’m his girlfriend.”

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